Supporting Families Through Loss (Yes, Midwives Do That Too)
- Mary Harris
- Feb 5
- 2 min read
Updated: 2 days ago
Care that holds space when outcomes change

Not every pregnancy ends with a baby in arms.
As a midwife, I support all outcomes—not just the joyful ones. That means being there through miscarriage, stillbirth, and all kinds of loss.
It means:
Holding space for grief, not rushing to "fix" it
Supporting you with practical care—monitoring vitals, managing physical recovery
Offering referrals for therapy, community, or spiritual support
Writing letters for time off or accommodations
Saying their name, honoring your bond, and reminding you: you are still a parent
Loss is isolating. But you don’t have to navigate it alone. You deserve a provider who can hold your grief with gentleness and skill.
If you’re walking through a loss now—or if you’ve held it quietly for years—this is a place where your experience is honored.
You are not alone. And you are never too much.
You Don't Have to Navigate Loss Alone
Pregnancy and birth loss are heartbreaking realities that too many families face in isolation. If you're walking through loss now, or if you want a provider who can support you through all possible outcomes, I'm here.
My experience includes supporting families through miscarriage, stillbirth, and other forms of loss with compassion, skilled care, and ongoing support. You deserve a provider who can hold your grief with gentleness.
FAQ Section:
Q: Do you provide care during miscarriage?
A: Yes, I support families through early pregnancy loss by monitoring your physical recovery, providing emotional support, offering referrals for additional care, and helping with practical needs like time off work.
Q: What happens if we lose our baby during pregnancy?
A: I provide comprehensive support including immediate medical care, emotional support, help with arrangements, memory-making opportunities if desired, and ongoing bereavement care. You're not alone in this journey.
Q: Do you offer support for families who've experienced previous losses?
A: Absolutely. Previous loss can create anxiety during subsequent pregnancies. I provide extra emotional support, help you process fears, and work with you to create a care plan that feels safe and supported.
Q: Can you help with the practical aspects of loss?
A: Yes, I can help with documentation needs, referrals to counselors or support groups, information about your options, and advocacy with employers or insurance as needed.
Q: What if I'm pregnant again after a loss?
A: Pregnancy after loss requires special care and understanding. I provide extra emotional support, acknowledge your previous baby, and help you navigate the complex feelings that often arise during subsequent pregnancies.



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