“Is Home Birth Right for Me?” A Self-Reflection Guide

An invitation to slow down, reflect, and listen to your instincts

Choosing how and where to give birth is deeply personal. It’s not about following a trend or checking a box—it’s about deciding what feels safe, supportive, and aligned with who you are and what you value.

As a licensed midwife serving families throughout Miami and Broward County, I support birthing people who are exploring home birth for many different reasons. Some want more autonomy. Others want to avoid unnecessary interventions. Many are just looking for someone who will listen before they make any decisions.

This self-reflection guide isn’t a test—it’s a tool. My hope is that it helps you get clear on what matters most to you, and whether home birth might be the right fit.

Reflective Questions to Ask Yourself

Take a few quiet moments to sit with these:

1. What kind of environment helps me feel most calm and safe? Would I prefer to birth in my own space, with my own lighting, smells, and music? Or do I feel more secure in a medical setting?

2. How do I feel about bodily autonomy and informed consent? Do I want to be fully involved in each decision? Do I want a provider who offers options instead of orders?

3. What are my fears or concerns about birth?Where do those fears come from—my own experiences, stories I’ve heard, or systemic patterns?

4. Who do I want by my side when I give birth? Do I want a close-knit circle? A solo experience? Support people I’ve built trust with?

5. What kind of care do I want after the baby is born? Will I want someone checking on me at home, holding space for healing—not just checking vitals?

Questions to Ask Any Midwife Before Hiring Them

Even if you don’t choose home birth—or don’t choose me—I want you to feel empowered to ask the right questions.

Here are 5 to start with:

1. How do you support consent and decision-making during labor?

2. What happens if something doesn’t go as planned?

3. What’s your approach to pain management, birth positions, and monitoring?

4. What are your backup plans and transport protocols?

5. How do you show up for diverse families—people with trauma, neurodivergent birthers, LGBTQIA+ folks?

Ready to Take the Next Step?

If these questions sparked something in you—curiosity, excitement, or even more questions—that's exactly where great birth experiences begin.

I offer free 60-minute consultations where we can talk through your thoughts, concerns, and vision for your birth. No pressure, no sales pitch—just honest conversation about what might be right for your family. 

Whether you're leaning toward home birth or just want to explore your options with someone who listens, I'm here.

Call 305-215-8763 to schedule your free consultation

FAQ Section:

Frequently Asked Questions About Home Birth Decisions

Q: How early in pregnancy should I decide about home birth? 

A: There's no "perfect" timing. Some families know before they're even pregnant, others decide in the third trimester. I've started care with families as late as 36 weeks when space is available. What matters most is that you feel confident in your choice.

Q: What if I want home birth but my partner doesn't? 

A: This is more common than you might think. I recommend both partners attend a consultation together so we can address specific concerns and discuss what home birth actually looks like. Often, fears come from misconceptions that can be easily addressed.

Q: Can I change my mind after hiring a midwife? 

A: Absolutely. Your care should always align with what feels right for you. If your needs change, we can discuss transferring to hospital care, another provider, or adjusting the plan. Your autonomy is always respected.

Q: Are there medical conditions that automatically rule out home birth? 

A: Some conditions do require hospital care, but many others can be safely managed at home. Each situation is individual. During our consultation, we'll review your health history and discuss what's possible for your specific circumstances.

Q: How do I know if a midwife is qualified? 

A: Look for state licensure (in Florida, this means Licensed Midwife or LM), current CPR and neonatal resuscitation certification, malpractice insurance, and experience with emergency situations. Don't hesitate to ask about credentials and experience.